Similar story here. Although I meet most of the diagnostic criteria, I have stable relationships (married for two years been together for about six years). I don't crave other peoples love, attention, or approval. Heck, most days I prefer to hide and when I do socialize, it's usually on a very superficial level unless I know you well.

Sounds like you could benefit from a second opinion. I've heard from many here that blended personality disorders are not all that rare. I wish you luck in getting to the bottom of what's troubling you. Maybe now with the new DSM diagnosing will be easier.