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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
None of the people on here have reported an experience (actual experience) of consulting with a sex therapist. I doubt though - sex therapists usually deal with sex-related issues, and you do not have any (yet). Also, what do you mean by UNDERperformance?
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Underperforming= not being able to satisfy my partner if/when that moment ever comes (looking more and more like "if" at the moment
) Trust me if I'm 35 and still haven't had any sex or haven't come close, I might not be around much longer thereafter (as I've said I'm 31 now).
I had read somewhere where virgins my age & older who want sex but haven't had it should seek a sex therapist to see if there's some mental block. Of course it wouldn't work for me since it's not a mental block (fear of intimacy), I've just never been remotely close to anything intimate.