Okay, what happens if you meet someone and lose your viginity, and then for whatever reason they decide to dump you? Just because you lose your virginity doesn't mean shortly afterwards someone can't kick you to the curb, and so you lost your viginity that way without love anyway. And you could be waiting years for that to happen, if it ever happens.

I doubt you're being judged, but I suspect you want sex so desperately that it's coming over in your body language. Maybe you don't notice it yourself but women are good at picking up on this.