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Originally Posted by hamster-bamster
No - it would be through love that would be a bit unrequited and sad, in the final accounting, but still love, and with a call girl (which otherwise would be a great idea, except for not satisfying the love component of OP's hopes; to the extent that virginity is a threat to OP's physical existence, I believe it might be OK to drop the love component but it is his choice) it would not be.
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Thank you, thank you, thank you
You've hit the nail on the head with my issue. I believe it's part of the circular logic concept which hurt me in my previous career (and in some weird way triggered these feelings). Women want a guy with some form of experience, how am I going to get said experience if they don't want a guy who hasn't had it? But more than that, it's a two-part issue. I direly crave BOTH love and sex. In fact it's the ONLY thing I want in my life right now with everything else stabilized. I want the love first before the sex, but I believe lack of sex is inhibiting my ability to be loved. It's just a matter of my moral foundation of not wanting to pay for sex.