You certainly have your hands full with your son. I'm so sorry he is suffering with those issues.

I have a 14yr old grandson who was not a preemie and suffers with ODD. Doctors are somewhat torn on the ADHD thing and is not diagnosed with it at this time.

Grandson was born normally, but as a tot, was a head-banger. Daughter had to rig his crib mattress on his door so that he would not injure himself when he banged his head.

Grandson has had issues in school since he first started school. He has been in special ed classes for years now. He was sent to a special school for boys with behavioral issues and has just recently admitted residentially there. I'm praying that they are able to help him, lord knows his mum and I haven't had any luck with him. He's a good kid really, he just has such anger issues and of course they turn into behavioral issues.

I pray that your sons brain scan goes well and you will get some answers, one way or the other. I wish I could be more help to you. I'll keep you both in my thoughts.