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Old Jun 10, 2013, 01:50 AM
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Originally Posted by pennyw View Post
I can't truly say he wasn't honest with me, he just wasn't clear. He said he was "skittish" about relationships, understandably so going through divorce and all, but his actions spoke otherwise, usually spending weekend evenings/nights together, and sometimes an evening during the week. Went out and had fun. Phone call or two most nights. Now nothing.
Hi there. So sorry for what you are going through. I too am going through depression which is long running and now having a major episode. My relationships have caused a lot of pain but the best bit of advice I have had is that I cannot be happy in a relationship if I am not happy with myself so I'm working through that. We shouldn't have to be in a relationship to be happy and if we become comfortable in ourself first then if a relationship comes along we are in a place to embrace it and see where it takes us.

Posting on here has been a great help to me, chatting to others in similar situations. I hope you find the support you need and feel free to message me for a chat

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Thanks for this!
bharani1008, pennyw