Hi...i know exactly where your coming from. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 9years. He does exactly the same thing. Ive caught him many times on chat sites, online profiles, etc. when confronted he tells me its just a "hobby" of his. Until this past January. He has chatted with sone girl on some sex online sight. I wouldnt have found out if he hadnt left his time sheet at home, he was supposd to have turned it in to his boss unfortunately he forgot. So when I noticed he had left it brfore he left for work I seen that he got off work early on Jan. 18th. I called him up he would not tell me where he was until he got off work the next morning, long story short hes been chatting with this online web sex site and got a room for both of them. However he told me it was a waste bcuz he claimoours she never showed up. til this day I dont know what to believe he told me he wad sorry but I dont believe him. Its my fault cause im letting him do this to me, but a part of me cant let him go. I tell him to leave to get the hell out but he wont. To me online chatting is CHEATING... I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY.THEY CAN DO THIS WHEN US LADIES ARE RIGHT THERE. MY CO WORKERs tell me to leave hm and I know I should but he wont leave. He.says he loves me and our daughter too much. I dont believe a single word he says anymore until now he cant evenn pro ve t hat he is changing. He is still online chatting and has profiles trying m eet other woman. All I can say is that yes I believe chatting or sending emails on the down low knowing they have a wife or girlfriend at home is CHEATING.