How about looking on the internet on sites where people look for no strings attached sex?

I have to be honest, a lot of women don't really want a virgin in his 30's. I know that sounds hurtful and I'm not doing it to be nasty. But you know yourself that with women it's different, if a woman sleeps around she gets unfairly accused of being a slut, with men they get looked at as a bit strange if they haven't had sex before 25.

It's unfair but that's life unfortunately. A lot of women will judge you on it. I think it's because there's the thought that something must be wrong for you not to have sex at that age. Female virgins often get respect but male virgins do get looked down at.

You can pay for sex or not. I'm not trying to want to will you into anything you don't want to do. It's your life and if you think that's not the way to go then that's fine. I also think you have to be realistic. For some people they never find that love or that special someone that you so desperately want. You don't want to have regrets. Saving yourself for someone who might never come along and even if someone does, it likely won't work out the way you expect it to. You need to think about yourself first and foremost. You say you're depressed about being a virgin. Well if not prostitutes or callgirls, then try a looking for a **** buddy, or something else like that.

You gotta be able to walk before you can run. I still you think even if you had sex just the once, it would relax you a bit and you'd be more likely to attract the type of woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. As things stand, you're going around in circles. You want a GF but you're so insecure about being a virgin that it's showing, maybe you don't notice it, but woman are apparently 6 times better at picking up on body language then men. So you're insecure about being a virgin, you feel woman don't a virgin and so it shows and you end up alone. So if you lost your viginity, you'd no longer be insecure about being a virgin and maybe you wouldn't end up being alone anymore.