I think it would feel different than either of them or a split decision.
I had a symptom that took up 5-15 hours of my day (and worked full-time) and use to wonder what it would be like not to have that symptom, what I'd "do" with that time. Now I don't have it but my life and feelings/thinking is not anything at all like I imagined.
I think your alters are smart and will solve their problems in creative ways you can't even imagine now that will satisfy all of you.
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