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Old Jun 10, 2013, 05:37 PM
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I don't think you should bring it up until you are sure it is going to have sex soon. Think about the opposite. Would you want a girl to say I've had 50 or 60 partners? With the exceptions of diseases, I dont think you have to disclose your history. Whether it is 0 or 100. The important thing is the relationship and what sex means in it, not what has happened in the past.

I wouldn't worry about the issue of not knowing how. Sex is not that difficult. I know it must be frustrating or disappointing to not had sex by the age of 30, but it doesn't make you any less of a person. Sex is a small part of a relationship. Trust, communication, mutual interest, the joy of being around someone you care for. If you spend 20 mins having sex that is about 90 hours a year. There are 8760 hours a year. That is about 1% of your time.

Just work on developing a relationship. Getting to know someone, having fun with them. Sex isn't the defining moment or the pinnacle of intimacy. I wouldn't try to fretbover it too much or be overly occupied by it.
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