AK, do forgive my off topic post here, but I feel it's in the best interest for you getting helpful advice in my attempting to try to reconcile the brewing little argument here. It would be unfortunate for your thread to be lost to this.

With the utmost respect Lycan, I don't think Hamster was trying to "score points" with anyone. Rather, I think Hamster's aim was to try to synthesize and understand your point. Clearly, Hamster differentiates from your point. Thus, I believe her post on page four wasn't a quip at you as much as it was to point out what she felt was a point that needed to be addressed. Ideally, had you two reached a consensus on AK's point, you would both be able to provide constructive points to AK in regards to his dilemma. Hamster, am I incorrect there?

Additionally, given the connotation given to "butthurt" and the high amount of LGBT posters here, I would recommend a different word choice.

Additionally (speaking to Hamster), it may be in, on occasion, your best interest and the interest of others to just let some things go. Your attention to detail, while impressive, can occasionally prove problematic in that, on occasion, you can pick up details that aren't there, or aren't meant to be there. lol I myself have fallen "victim" to that on occasion.