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Old Jun 11, 2013, 05:05 AM
manwithnofriends manwithnofriends is offline
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Originally Posted by InfiniteSadness View Post
Part of me wants to date.. I wouldnt be on dating sites if i didnt. But another part of me says i really cant do it with the depression and anxiety, ocd issues im dealing with. I REALLY need advice on this because its tearing me apart... I dont want to feel so CONFLICTED about dating.. Like i DO and I DONT all the time. It drives me crazy.. What should i do??
No, do not date. Find a therapist to help you overcome your anxiety and depression. If you have these "issues" and expect your date to solve them, they're either going to blatantly refuse (because they're not qualified or willing to understand) or expect something from you in return.

Even if you have left your problems behind you, let me just say this, online is not the only place to find dates. If you have a job, your own colleagues would be a good place to start. If not, join a club of any sort and be friends with people there.