I had a T once ask me if I ever orgasmed. Ick. I did not answer, we weren't anywhere near talking about sex at the time. I felt that was too personal.

I think you can ask a T anything, they may refuse to answer certain things. It really depends on the T. Some of them are an open book, others will talk about themselves but not their family, and others won't say anything.

Personally...I don't ask t's questions about themselves. I am paying to talk about me for 45 minutes. That doesn't mean it's wrong, it's just not my style. Funny though...because most of my t's have told me way too much about themselves.