I rarely ask T personal questions, and when I do, it's usually in direct relation to what we're talking about. So far, T has not refused to answer anything, but I'm also super cautious about what I ask. I have had my own privacy so very violated by the people in my life, that I am super careful not to do that to others, and probably take it to a bit of an extreme.

As far as T asking me questions...so far, she hasn't asked me anything that I consider too personal, but she has asked me things that I'm not comfortable talking about right then. I usually just tell T "I'm not comfortable answering that" and we either move on or explore why it's something I'm not comfortable with. If I tell T I need to move away from a topic, she has always respected that. Sometimes, she'll ask me if we can come back to it later, because she feels it's important.