I had a friend... tiny, small boobs, big teeth, not-so-flawless skin, short thin hair. She coulda write Sex and the City, that's how many men she had. It was all personality and confidence.

I see a problem with "I wanna be twin with my T". It shows you still lack the "you". Maybe it shows. I think men (and women) prefer women who can pull off their style. See as girl-who-likes-girls-(too)... I have beauty ideal. Yes, it's long haired, full bodied, brown eyed beauty. But I can fall for skinny pixie cut blondie if she has the spark and wears her clothes, hair, herself... proudly.