With my T I don't set out to ask personal questions but I think on occasion as part of a discussion I have probably asked some. We've discussed many things and he often tells me things without my asking and I cant recall him ever refusing to answer something if I did ask....just cant recall ever asking...hmm

As far as T asking me questions, that's a bit different. Usually I am fine with whatever he asks and he is most often pretty respectful about things. Once in a while though he does ask about something that I would prefer not to answer. There I times I swear he is just nosey. I don't like when he asks me about money and that sort of thing and when I attempt to deflect the question or change the subject, he will push and act quite exasperated until I finally cave in and answer.