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Originally Posted by catsrhelm
Reserve some you and me time without the kids somehow. I am sure if your boyfriend was willing, he'd make a way.
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This is exactly what we try to do...planning is pretty essential when you don't live near one another. If last minute things came up that one of the kids had something (event etc)that was impt....of course I understand...going to the mall/out for sushi is not urgent and shouldn't seem to interupt plans..yet he has that divorce 'guilt' and thinks no matter what they ask he needs to do...