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Originally Posted by VenusHalley
I had a friend... tiny, small boobs, big teeth, not-so-flawless skin, short thin hair. She coulda write Sex and the City, that's how many men she had. It was all personality and confidence.
I see a problem with "I wanna be twin with my T". It shows you still lack the "you". Maybe it shows. I think men (and women) prefer women who can pull off their style. See as girl-who-likes-girls-(too)... I have beauty ideal. Yes, it's long haired, full bodied, brown eyed beauty. But I can fall for skinny pixie cut blondie if she has the spark and wears her clothes, hair, herself... proudly.
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Well once again about your friend. Your description makes her seem average looking, but even an average looking women if she puts herself out there will get her plenty share of men wanting to go with her. Especially for casual sex.
The whole personality/ confidence thing is a tad overrated. I'd say confidence in men is more of a must. But personality, I don't buy that's a big an issue. How many players and jerks get their share of women and how many beautiful women who happen to be *****es get their share of men?
I think long term realationships personality bears more significance, but even then people can stay in toxic realationships for years.