I know this is not the point of the thread, so I apologize in advance, but what you said meant that "fat" people "cannot be sexy" and must have "redeeming qualities" such as "personality", which is not true, as a matter of fact, and discriminating, as a matter of ethics.

danceswithfat - Gravatar Profile - for many people, she is delightfully sexy. And I am much smaller than her, but I would think that she is far, far, far sexier than I am because she can dance and I cannot.

So be careful when you talk/post - I do realize that you were not ill-willed but quite well-intentioned, which is why I took the time to make this point to you, respecting you and hoping that you would, in turn, appreciate the point.