I never ask my T any personal questions, so anything I know about her I know bc she told me. If she does tell me anything, its in relation to whatever we are talking about. I know she has kids and their general ages.

She once asked me if I had sexual fantasies, and I just stared at her, and then said no and moved on. I avoid that subject like it is on fire, so i am sure if i ever were to bring it up, the "too embarrassing" questions would emerge. Genrally though, my T follows my lead-so this really is not an issue