I am very observant and aware of some things and totally tune out others, depending on what may cause danger. I never look at my T...don't usually notice her clothes, shoes, etc. But if she moves one of the thousands of figurines on her shelves, or changes the position of the blanket on the back of the coach, I notice immediately. I pay attention to her expressions and attitudes and tone of voice, etc. Mostly it's been a survival skill...if it is a cue to danger, i don't miss it. If it's not going to hurt me, I barely recognize it.