Tonight I'm going to force him to sit down and talk. I've had a stomachache all day about it but at this point something must change. I can't decide if I want to stay or end it so hopefully what he says may shed some light. Maybe he's not feeling it anymore either. Or maybe (more likely, I think) he'll panic and vow to make changes. If option two is what happens I'm worried that changes won't stick this time. They never did in the past but we've never had a talk like the one we're going to have tonight. Thanks for the support so far