I agree. Just try to relax and live in the moment. Don't think too much about how they feel or what they think of you. If you want to know ask them. If they can't accept you for who you are, then they aren't right for you. If you try to live up to some expectation you are setting for yourself, then you will always feel like you are not good enough to please them. Just try to let yourself out and enjoy the experinces with the other person.