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Originally Posted by herethennow
do you all observe T or pdoc for that matter?
for me, i would observe how they sit... and go something like this "ooh she's not wearing a ring, she's not married i guess.." "i keep seeing red on her everytime i see her, her favourite colour must be red!" and not really listening to what T says at times?
i do that alot and sometimes i miss the crucial part of what T says so in the end i have to ask her what she said >_<
but it has helped though, as my pdoc seems to love pink and flowers (she has a flowery cath kidston iphone cover, her lanyard was pink flowery) i managed to give her a card filled with flower pictures..
so do you all observe T? :X
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I like to do it very much, not only during the session but also every day. I "KNOW" what coloures she lkes. She always wear dresses! I know what shoes she has, when she changed her spectacles frames. I like to look at her when she talk to me, not conversely. I didn't have real closeness (physical, emotional) as a child, so when I can look at her that is like closeness beetwen us. Of course I call attension to her every move, words she saying and facial expression. That's not good usual because I see nonexistent things .
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