There are many I hate, Here are a few.

One of my biggest pet peeves when I was younger was the onslaught of invalidation from my own mother when I did tell her how I feel, which was and still is rare.

Me: "I dont know Just feeling really kinda down and depressed... I dont know why"
Mom: "Oh Must be cause of work".
Me: "No mom its not work"
Mom: "Well Maybe it is because School starts soon?"
Me: "No Mom"
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Me: *being angry/upset about something*
Mom: I dont see why you are so angry, you really need to stop having a chip on your shoulder.

Always blaming feelings on an object or thing instead of and choosing to ignore my feelings versus seeing that they were real pains for me.

Others:
"You Just need to be more positive"
"Life isn't that bad, you are just overreacting"
"You turned out just fine"

I know there is more.