I am sorry, but slutty and sexy are not the same thing. And, a girl should be able to look sexy without dressing slutty. Not that there is anything terribly wrong in dressing slutty, but, in general, a girl should be able to look sexy on the strength of her looks without extra assistance from slutty clothing. I mean, "slutty yet playful" is OK, but "slutty and seriously slutty" is tasteless, in my opinion.

So, I am glad that the ex gf did not dress slutty, and that you didn't, either - you dressed sexy but not slutty.

Nor did I suggest that he respected you more (or less) than he respected her. All I suggested was that her sexiness, in his estimate, was average, and thus MySpace was an adequate venue to display it; further, I suggested that your sexiness is way above average, in his mind, and thus MySpace - being low traffic and not even a household name any longer - was not good enough to display your sexiness.

Does that make it better?