Thanks Odee! Somehow I didn't see your post when I tried to respond before. I'm not sure what's up with the forum, it has me a little confused...I think maybe because I'm a new member my posts have to be approved before they're posted. I guess if that's true then you won't see this one for a while either

But thanks, your reply is really helpful as well. I guess I just don't want to bring it up or make a big deal about it, but he's pretty open, at least to me. Maybe I'll wait until the next time he brings up the subject to let him know I'm willing to listen if he needs it.

And pressure or anger shouldn't be problems, I'm not the "angry" type