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Wow I think you are thinking a lot into things. You are young, you have no idea how young you are and how much life you have ahead of you. It is good you have a goal you want to achieve. No need to rush it though love and life can take time to develop and come to fruition.
If I knew then what I know now things would be hugely different for me. At your age I had no clue what I wanted or needed (still don't actually). I would have tried to experience dating more and tried to do something with my life (work and that kind of thing).
You don't want the club chicks. So stop going to clubs. You may want to find places that will have the type of women you are looking for. Find events or places you find interesting that may have women you may like. The only way to find a woman you like is to go to places those women will be.
Best advice I can give is enjoy life, figure out the career you want and be with the people that have the same interests and all you have and like. Things will fall into place especially when you are at ease and comfortable. Don't worry if your not married by a certain time. All you are doing is putting undo pressure on yourself and you will make mistakes in things you choose when you are rushing towards a time.
Good luck and try to enjoy life as much as you can, save money and don't be afraid to have a few one night stands or short relationships.
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