My husband is an asshole. And while I tell you the kids and I are safe, I really wonder what might happen. Tonight he hit me with a fan. Our youngest was on the couch next to me and it bounced off of my face and hit her. What if he has missed me all together? What if she was the one hurt instead of me? I can't tell you this because I'm not ready to do anything about it and I don't want my kids taken away from me.