iota:
"But I like proceeding without the diagnosis so much in the foreground. We can talk without it and resolve things better if we stay close to the whole picture rather than a set of symptoms."

Yeah... I agree with you. I can match many symptomps to myself, but that changes not too much. Maybe somehow diagnosis is important for the therapist - he know better what I need the most etc., but on the other hand following the rules can be too rigid sometimes.