I love how all of you have turned this on me. I realize that I asked for no sympathy but opinion, and that's what I go I guess...

I didn't think there was so much will out there to make me out to be the bad guy. Yes, I have been digging around. Nothing too heavy, come to find out she did mess around on me in the past. 2 more times than she said. so, who is being meesed up? I have never EVER even flirted with another person while I am with her. If anything, her behavior warrants a look through by me. Just because I brought it up, doesn't make me the bad guy. It makes me what I always knew I was. Cautious, not stupid.