The guy I am dating wants to come with me so he can ask my T "how to talk to me." This came up at lunch today, and I almost spit out my drink.
My T would tell him to stop thinking he is right all the damn time and to listen to me for once...maybe he should come. What a freaking joke.
I did say, "Um, I think you might need to at least be my boyfriend first." And he said he had questions about how to approach that, too. Dude, it's called, maybe get your own T. Mine isn't a helpline.