My x-husband has just come home from a 2 year relationship with someone else. We are just friends now, but I thought we might be more, but he does not quit abusing alcohol, zanax, and elaville. He is having to be helped to bed ever night because he can not walk. My 13 year old daughter (her father) have been doing this for almost 2 months. When do we say enough is enough. I donot want to be an enabler.