I think your boyfrriend has sex issues that may have a connection to his own childhood experiences. Many of our psychlogical issues go back to our childhood. This has been proven in all professional studies on this issue. Even if u ask about that he may adamantly deny it because most men will not admit to it because it makes them feel less of a man if they cannot perform to the expectations of their sexual parters. I know because I'm a man. U need to talk to him about it.

I'm probably older than u might expect but i have a lot of experience.
I was married, got separated from my wife after thirty something years of marraige, our sexual intimacy was going no where, I'm sorry to say, and as a result I, like most men, I had an affair with another woman, but I can tell u, and i don't mean to boast, I satisfied both of these woman
who had earth shattering orgasims at my tender hands that they never experienced in their entire lives. I tell u they could not even express it in words. It was "OMG...." I thought they were speaking in a foreign language until I realized I must be doing something right. I must be pressing all the right buttons. It was better than tying on my computer keyboard!!!

So if u think that talking to your bo about this issue may help then go for it.... or I suggest that he get some professional help. If u say u r attactive and a sex kitten any man would desire then u need to really look at your present relationship to see if it can get better. If not then find yourself another man who can appreciate u for the woman u say u r and who can provide u with the happiness and pleasure u so deserve.

Does that make any sense??? Maybe it does.... think about it deeply.
Make the right choices for your happiness. I think u deserve that.
Live is short.... live on my princess!!!

Regards ,
"almostthere" And i dont mean sexually, ok...