Wow yellowfrog, I'm so sorry to hear that news. I can understand not being able to deal well with stressors. Gosh, since I've been depressed this year & developing anxiety I have trouble with little stressors like running late or getting a little lost in the car - things that never used to bug me. I hope you can take care of some of the logistical stuff soon, even though I know that and feeling calmer will take you a bit of time.

Hugs, Gracez