Dude, that sucks. . .But privacy is privacy, I say respect it. Also confront her, tell her your fears of this mysterious ****, ya know? Ask her if she's hiding something...Not 'what' she's hiding, 'if' she is hiding something. You can ask someone almost anything, you just have to present it a certain way. Maybe even manipulate her to give you the answer. She is a woman, female, lady, girl....she has a twisted mind, dude. She has a strategy, do you? No? Okay get one! I'm not saying it's cool to play these games, but sometimes **** has to get done!

~Nikole~