Yeah, I probably should have searched for previous threads before replying - maybe you can provide them for me?

Please, these are just opinions - mine. And as I said, I am basing this on this post only.

When one can look at a post by studying what it says and how it is said from an objective (albeit lacking in much detail / history) view, it is easier to state things in a much more matter-of-fact way.

And you did say you did not want to be coddled...

Nevertheless, I believe I provided both sides with "good and bad" aspects and did not just blame you (although there is a certain distaste about this topic that comes across in how you express yourself in the subject line)

And who said anything about "her" being around when you flirt? That would be stupid. If one is going to flirt, it would be better done if the g/friend is NOT around to see it - and much easier to get away with...

And anyway, what exactly do you mean by:
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I have never EVER even flirted with another person while I am with her.

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Does that mean that you flirt when she is not there?

Be careful now what you say here; everybody flirts to some degree. One can flirt innocently, too!