Very interesting thread! I have attachment issues and also was terminated inappropriatly by my last T. I think I was having transference issues at the time (I had no idea what it was) and it may have been part of the reason he turned me away at the end.

Currently, I am waiting for the bottom to drop out with my current T. He seems to have a better grasp on transference, my attachment issues and how abandonment plays into my thinking/behavior - but it still always happens and I expect him to leave me. Maybe the expectation causes the other to leave? Is it a self-fulfilling prophecy? Even so, it's not something I can just stop doing it's sort of ingrained in me, at least for now.