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Originally Posted by healingme4me
To me, you are here, gaining others insights and advice/support. Because you are, to me, it's obvious you aren't making him choose between the two, you OR the kids?! wow.
Do you ever tell him, no, when he makes last minute plans with you? (due to his kids dissing him or cancelling on him)
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I have made other plans before when his plans keep flipflopping...usually w/other friends..and I have left it open for him to join me when he gets dissed..and usually he always does join me...if it was something I planned that was just a girl day then no he wouldn't be included..but he's aware I will make other plans..its just timing since sometimes the cancellation comes w/lil notice and leaves me high dry;(...But yeah..I guess if he's left twiddling his thumbs on one of those flipflop days he will feel a bit what I do..don't like to play the game tho...