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Originally Posted by 1stepatatime
Eeeek!!! I know what you mean, Mona....one time back some months ago my T was asking me questions about where I am at (emotionally),so to speak during ....self gratification I just looked at her and was thinking," no you didn"t just go there!!!! And I skipped right over that one! 
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
Aghhhhh, it's so embarrassing. I don't think they need that much detail, do you?
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Well.. I was basically shamed in assessment for something I mentioned but was non-specific about. My feeling is, that I'd rather be criticized for something, or work on a subject, that I know we're talking about in-context, rather than someones assumption of what they
think we're talking about.
As for embarrassment, well.. yeah. Its one of those ****** hidden costs. The self-gratification thing sounds pretty coy, all things being equal. I guess I don't feel guilty about being human in that way.