Sky, maybe you and I have different experiences. Whenever I've gone to a minister for psychological help, they have failed me miserably... one dismissed me by saying "pray about it" and including help for my daughter when she was physically abusing her oldest boy. The minister saw NOTHING wrong with her smacking his bare legs with a long glue stick!! A church oriented parenting group had actually done EXPERIMENTS ON THEIR KIDS to see what would hurt them the most without leaving bruises! My first grandson was one of the experiments!!! OMG!!

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To me, there is nothing better than a PSYCHOLOGIST that is Christian. Ministers don't have a decent study in psychology... just enough to make then dangerous!... IMHO