Hi lisamom, thank you for replying.

Ever since that other incident with that other guy a little over a year ago I've been doubtful of her sexual identity. I mean, I don't really care what she identifies as, bi or gay, as long as she's faithful to me and tells me what she wants.

I've tried talking to her about it and she keeps insisting she wasn't expecting a reply from this guy.

I spoke to my therapist and I feel like a total mess. She's very straightforward with me since I'm in psychology so some of the stuff she tells me is quite hard to hear. Two options she said, in simple terms, my gf is straight and is with me because I make her feel safe and I don't pressure her into having sex. Or that I'm some sort of mother figure since her actual mother is, well, I don't have very nice words to describe her.

*sigh*