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Originally Posted by roseleigh7
It could be that. I just hold on to the old bad ways of coping so strongly. How do you make yourself want to let that go?
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It's scary because we get so used to coping in a negative way that it's hard to change. For me, it's realizing that I'm wasting my life by not changing and that I'm giving up the life I should be living. I think about what I'm going to feel like in 10 years if I'm still in the same spot........and then I realize I don't have any more time to mess around. Change has to happen.