I know this sounds a little weird - but when I bought my last car, another person where I worked got a nice discount on his new car from our manager. But when I asked for the same discount, I was rejected. For a while, this bothered me. Then I said, I am not going to let the displeasure of this discount ruin my pleasure of my new car. It's not worth it. If you can enjoy our new wife and build a happy life together, that is really all that matters.