The inner-peace and happiness that we all need to find within ourselves, is what I've been told will help let go of the lonelyness! It doesn't matter what people say or do towards you, because its only a reflection of what they want for themselves and its their dream Read the book " The Four Agreements " by Don Miguel Ruiz. It teaches us how to live within the hell and still have your inner-peace and happiness. I myself have read the book 3 times and I have only got it through half of it, but plan on reading it over and over until I find my inner-peace and happiness from within