You may not like this,but your feelings/behavior is
abnormal. Before I went to counseling I too would
have said I'd never been abused (I had repressed it).
And even if some of you have really not been abused, you must look back to your conditioning as
a child. We ALL get conditioned,for good or ill in
our families of origin,and unless we are aware of
that; WE ACT OUT OUR CONDITIONING.
Hope that helps.
Kind Regards,
BLUEDOVE