I'm guessing people are deliberately looking for an argument...why can't we just get along and agree to disagree?
Personally, if I have a boyfriend, I am going to request that he shaves his legs. I don't think it's fair that women have to keep up their legs if they are going to show skin in public, and I don't want to rub legs with someone hairy.
As for facial hair, it depends on the style. Personally I like the stubble of the first few days after shaving.