I'm so sorry your doctor is acting out of fear. There is a difference between use and abuse; between dependence and addiction. There was an extensive Harvard study done on that, in fact. Maybe he/she should read it?

I would be honest with my doctor and say that possibly you can understand his concerns, but that he/she should send you to a pain management dr who can treat you or you'll be looking for another dr.

I've been where you're at and there's nothing right or fair about it..nothing.

I wish you well. Please let us know how you're doing.

KD