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Originally Posted by Mapleton
Without being able to mindread... and no matter how good a therapist is, they can't mindread, therapy has to be about trial and error.
Obviously training, experience and intuition help, but no... I think you're basically correct. I'm very scared about the self-reliance part, being I don't trust myself, but I cognitively know that other people can.
I know I felt a tinge of jealousy thinking how self-sufficiently successful all of the other people, my therapist included, are.
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I feel more than a tinge of jealousy, I feel broken and like there is something wrong with me! My therapist assure me there isn't but I don't believe her!
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Originally Posted by hankster
Of course - the stockholm syndrome is just the negative introject. Omg that's what parenting is all about!! Brainwash parenting anyway.
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brainwash parenting lol, you could create your own style of therapy Hankster with this
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Originally Posted by Asiablue
OR we are little birds with broken wings and we stay with out T's to help us mend our hurts and help us become stronger with the faith that they'll let us go when we are ready to be free again. |
I love this, it's a more positive way of looking at it