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Originally Posted by phaset
I've had a rough day. Still really raw from yesterday. My wife and I went out for supper yesterday and went shopping after. Had a hard time in the store and just wanted to get out of there. More shopping today, felt the same.
When we got home I laid down in the bedroom. I just wanted to be alone. After a few hours she came in and kept asking me what's wrong then got mad when I wouldn't tell her. I wish I could talk about it with her but I always put up a wall.
I am so frustrated with myself. I wish none of this is happening.
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Phaset,
I want to encourage you to talk with your wife. I shut mine out for years and now we are separated and headed for divorce. I wish I had talked to her but I also put up walls, thinking she would laugh at me or ridicule me.
She tells me that she wishes I had talked to her before the damage was done.
Put on your bravest face and share with her. If she really loves you then she will listen and be a wife to you...give her that chance!